So... because I am sooo impatient I read this article today on Gizmodo about how to get an early version of Iphone 3.0 and decided to totally do it and it is so fun! It worked exactly as that guy said it did, however as with anything try at your own risk, or maybe wait till next week! I just wanted those features while at Bonaroo!
That being said, the MMS is still not working because AT&T has not allowed for that feature yet! I called AT&T and the girl working there assured me that she was both an Iphone expert for AT&T and that iphones cant and wont be able to use MMS. I explained to her that I have seen it in action and about the update and she remained very firm in her ignorant position so I guess next week , we shall see how prepared AT&T is.